parents have a total plan in "how" their child will behave! Guess what?! The PLAN seldoms occurs! We make it happen anyway by letting the child do his or her own thing! This is one of my best buds baby boy and I LOVE THIS CHILD! We had a fun lunch and afternoon and he LOVED that Malaena-Sloan wasn't with him so I could give him undivided attention!!!! FUN!